karen

Tue, 15 Dec 2009 18:23:13 GMT

So right now I'm with my group in the library.
I am so frustrated.
they are incrediably slow.
we've been here for over an hour and half --- and have done NOTHING of substance.
I am furstrateddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd

dear god, i hate group work.
why should i put my grade in your hands?
your idiotic, unfocused hands.

Wed, 04 Nov 2009 17:17:09 GMT

=|

I don't know what to think about things.
what to think about myself.

Am i connecting mysterious, unrelated dots and trying to prove a non-existant constellation?
then why does it appear to make sense in some really fucked up way?

Amioverthinkingthings?
Amiunderestimatingmyoverthinking?

Last night i wanted to call someone.
not one person did i call.
could i call.

im too busy to keep friends of any kind.
they all end up hating me because i cannot relate/hang/talk consistently.
i go months without talking to anyone.
i really like them, i am just too tired.
too frustrated.
too annoyed.
too exhausted.

what happens when you don't have a life and want to escape from that no-life-life?
nothing.
maybe alcohol.

my head is scrambled with puzzlepieces
lost pieces that belong to numerous different pictures
lost pieces that do not in any way fit together.
i get lost a lot.

Fri, 21 Aug 2009 08:54:45 GMT

this proves it unequivocally.

there must be something wrong with me.

...

Thu, 30 Jul 2009 16:29:40 GMT

I feel depressed everyday.
No breaks.

scrambled.

Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:45:46 GMT

I would a million times over prefer to listen to someone's problem than think about my own.

i wonder what the term is for a hypochondriac that worries about mental health excessively?
the battle from over-thinking for the sake of sanity is ruining my life.

why can't i just ... make decisions.

my best friends keep abandoning me and i am left with these numb scars.
scars that have healed; created a tough tissue now acting as a shield.
I suffer now because I can't get past this.
Even to people I Love.

This is becoming a burden that is hard to bare.

I've done nothing but have successes in my life - constantly growing and achieving faster than anyone parallel to my world.
Yet I have no one to share this with, really.
I know he loves me, but i also know it's hard to keep interested in things that are uninteresting.
Sure, something are easy. but not the full scope.

I just feel like I have constant inner-dialogue, and that is how I manage daily.
Cyclothymic Disorder seems most fitting.
Or am I dreaming this all to justify my need for psychological reasoning?

Sun, 01 Mar 2009 03:18:44 GMT

if you want to involuntarily cry a lot (in a good way)

watch "underdog to wonderdog" on animal planet.

....im so not kidding.

Tue, 14 Oct 2008 01:51:33 GMT

I guess I don't know how to solve my problem.

I wish i had somebody who could help me.

but i don't think they could if they wanted to.

Fri, 05 Sep 2008 00:01:49 GMT

I guess sometimes I just feel crazy.
crazy as in I postively do not know how I am going to react to anything.
crazy is the word their eyes scream when I make any interaction.
I can't help it mostly. I really can't.

I'm in a consistant terrible mood for no apparent reason.
I lack everything except attitude.
lack concern. lack motivation. lack lacking.

I avoid as much human contact as I can.
mostly just because I will have to explain Myself.

Only certain People I feel good around.
when I am like this.

but I can't demand People's time.
I can't force Them to spend time with me.
I don't want to do that.

[but i wish i could.]

it's not Their fault.
I treat them awfully some times.

I'm sure I will have fun in Chicago.

I hope I have fun in Chicago.

I wish I could just stay in my bed all weekend.

Sun, 17 Aug 2008 17:36:16 GMT

I ab-so-lutely cannot wait til school starts.

cannot cannot cannot.

i am happy to have what friends i do.
they are all good people.
genuine, i think.

Wed, 16 Jul 2008 06:55:37 GMT

<3
love.

clarity

Sun, 13 Jul 2008 08:24:58 GMT

fair warning this is going to be a drunk self-deprecating entry.

i know they won't be there for the rest of my life or anything.
but what if they're not there for the real start of my life?
or the preliminary round before the start of my life?

I literally cannot fathom a solitary world.
that is what i fear the most.
but what if it is inevitable?
what if i cannot escape it?
I think things are great, i hope they are great.
what if in years they are not?
what if a sudden something arises.
i don't know.

I fear the unkown future.
my future.

with everyone neuron i want to trust people.
and i do.
but what if down the roadi am fooling myself?

I barely have close friends anymore.
'close' is the best i get.
no 'best'.
i wish there were.

even when i go out, i just sit there and am more of a spectator than a interactionist.
i feel like this is a bad cycle to start.
but i'm already halfway through i cna't change my motion now.

people i used to be close with have drifted apart.
i am too scared to be closer with anyone i already am with.
so i find faults. of course.

it just feels like its been a realllyyyyy long time since i've found someone i can be best friends with.
and my track record is not good.
literally if you want to move 4+ hours away from me in a short time, become bests.

//

starting tomorrow i have off until wednesday.
i think i am going to go up north.
even though no one else is there.
a good couple of days with a good couple of books is my plan for a while.

//

im sorry.

Fri, 20 Jun 2008 20:35:51 GMT

Hey you, out there in the cold
Getting lonely, getting old
Can you feel me?
Hey you, standing in the aisles
With itchy feet and fading smiles
Can you feel me?
Hey you, dont help them to bury the light
Dont give in without a fight.

The song "landslide" makes me cry.
^that wasn't landslide. but it still makes me cry.

I don't have very many people I can get along with.
I seem to bite people's heads off.
Or while they're talking thats all I can think about to restrain me from actually doing it.

I feel sincerely lucky to have him.
I never thought I could ever find someone so perfect for me.
Like, it's disgusting how perfect.

I don't want to be crazy.
I am so scared it might happen I can't even think about it.
...only all i ever do is think about it.

I haven't written to you in a long time, lj.
I think I need to rethink your absence in my life.
I'm fairly sure my absence has erased devouted readers, so I should be ok.

Children get older,
And I'm getting older too.

Wed, 20 Feb 2008 16:37:12 GMT

Yeah, so im still not over it...
but a good talk helps.
even though i struggle to find words.
i guess my biggest problem is to find someone who i can stand and actually cares enough about me to listen to me. like really listen. and as much as people preach it and offer their ear (im guilty of it too) they really don't care.
i don't like to do it in the first place, so its even harder when i know you don't wanna listen.
it's not a big deal.
i feel better now.

oh well.

i just studied all night for my two midterms today in my hardest classes: grammar and anti-war lit.
we'll see how lit goes, but grammar i just rocked the shit out of :D (thank God)
tonight is hanging with miss kavster.
i want to hang out with seedster too.
i just don't have enough time, really.

BUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

i have break next week!!! so i hope to pound it out!
Seriously i am SO excited for break. all i have to do is work!?
I AM GOING TO BE SO HAPPY. today is pretty damn stressful for me,
but AFTER today it is going to be so much better for me!
i am trying to be optimistic, here.

cloves are the best thing, when im stressed.
i had had suspicions before, but i am 98% sure.
nicotine is good for something, afterall.
but then when im not stressed anymore, they repulse me.
what a waste of $

Wed, 20 Feb 2008 02:15:31 GMT

I'm feeling much better about things.

nothing has been fixed, so its not going to go away...

but at least i feel better now.

Tue, 19 Feb 2008 05:07:54 GMT

I don't know who i am anymore.
how did this downward spiral happen?
im not a sad person.
am i? i am now.
in general. over the last two years.

ive thought about it all day (+)
i can't help it.
thinking about it.
history always repeats itself.
and i can never help it.

i am as much ashamed as i am worried.

Mon, 18 Feb 2008 21:10:29 GMT

I have little to say that makes sense anymore.
I guess it's kind of hard for me to articulate.
I know where i am, what im doing, why im doing it.
but i'm still not...anywhere in particular.
i guess its kind of hard for me to even articulate it to myself.
i don't even consciously think about it...it usually hits me while driving.

i don't know where i belong, i guess, is the jist.
im a kid, ive always felt older.
i love education, but i have no motivation.
i want to do theatre, but restrict its presence in my life.
almost everyone i talk to i can relate to on a very basic level.
i don't strive to become friends with anyone.
not at school, not even people i hang out with.
after 20 minutes i just feel like..............
"okay i think we're done here"

this is not overwhelming at all.
just....present.

and there are these other things.
little things that bother me.
i just don't trust anyone.
and some decisions don't ease this.
sometimes i just think people are after more than they will admit to.
subconsciously or not.
it kind of upsets me.

then i just try to say, 'don't be dumb'
it helps for a while.
but not for very long.

im giving up for now.
none of this makes sense to me.

i feel like im paying for my sins.

Sun, 27 Jan 2008 13:21:02 GMT

i've been struggling with this for a while.
this subconscious thing that manifests itself almost daily in my life.
it swims through my brain and resurfaces for air (and acknowledgment) throughout the day.
it burrows in my dreams.
i get it, i know it. but...
every time i get close, i freeze.
i am just unsure.
i mean, im not unsure, but i am unsure of the implications.
i just don't want it to cause an uncomfortable space that wasn't there before.
i hope it wouldn't, but you never know...
and am i sure?
yeah.
im sure im sure.

i just don't like making mistakes.

[who doesn't?]

Tue, 22 Jan 2008 05:58:39 GMT

Man, i wish i could just tell her.
ya know, "hey im pretty sure you should open up your eyes"

but i can't say anything.
she will just hold it against me because she doesn't want to see it.
she will just think im being mean about him or whatever.

listen, i don't care about him.
i care about you.
and the decisions you make, and your happiness.

do not change yourself for him.
change your habits, likes, dislikes, general attitude towards everyone else.
just to mirror his?
that bullshit.
as fucking cliche as it is real love means accepting that person for who they ARE.
not who they are when they are around that person.

I guess i just don't want you to get hurt again.
i've seen you go through so much pain.
and i've tried to be supportive and help you through those times.

but what sucks the most is:
we, together, have been through so much.
so why can't i talk to you now?
i don't think you will listen to me at all...
how come you could listen to me before, but not now?

i just feel like it is more distance between us.
as if there already isn't enough...

honor and intergrity are things he preaches,
but never have i ONCE seen him display any of these traits.
In fact, it is usually the opposite.

you'd think if everyone agrees, you'd listen....

as a good, once best, friend i feel like its my responsibilty to tell you HEY WATCH OUT.
isn't it?? thats what friends do, right?
if i know certain things i should tell you, right??
but i am positive it will all turn against me.
people only believe what they want to believe and they see things the same way.
i am almost positive you will choose him over me.

i guess the bottom line is i care about you too much to say anything that would cause more tension between us.
and i know it would do that.
but man, do i wish every day that i could tell you.
or at least have a dialogue with you about it.
just to find out more.
but you are on the defense because you know i do not approve.

what a mess.
i wish it could be another way because i really like you as a friend.
but i think this may be the end of close friendship.

but i really hope not :|

Fri, 18 Jan 2008 16:33:59 GMT

I feel like my life is haphazardly put together.
do you get that feeling ever?
like my life is a dayplanner. appointments, obligations, times.
proceed from one to the next in a sequincial and promt manner.
that's not all i do, mind you, but it feels like it is [most of the time].

i just complain a lot i guess.
i wish i could get better at that.
and not saying or doing things i don't mean.
or letting little stress affect my mood.
not like these a huge deals...
i just...should be more concious about my actions.
regarding everyone and everything.

gerard said something last night along the lines of "i like them, i think they're cool, but i dislike them as a person."
and i think that pretty much applies to the majority of people i have interactions with.
the people i like and want to spend time with are a different story, of course.
but i keep finding myself in situations i do not want to be in with people i do not want to be with.
but they're unavoidable.

there goes complaining again...

i have nothing nice to say, i guess.

except that...i hope i don't make the people i like to hang out with weary of me.
since i have such little saving grace in my days, sometimes i think i overkill.
i try really hard to restrain this.

also,
im starting to believe in lex talionis more every day.

Fri, 11 Jan 2008 17:27:30 GMT

So classes are good, i guess.
some i really hate and others i really like.

i think im most excited for modern english grammar.
professors uses words i have never heard of!
rules i haven't learned!
i have literally been waiting like 3 semesters to take this class.
OH, (falsely) PRESCRIBED GRAMMAR, i am excited to meet you thouroughly.

i am in intro to theatre.
with the prof i had for acting.
i pwn that class and can answer every question.

homework is the biggest scare, however.
i must find time to complete it.

i wish i could quit emagine.
work someplace where people don't CONSTANTLY bad mouth others.
its just....dumb.
but it pays the bills i guess.

uhm, im done i guess.
how come everyone has abonded livejournal?
i miss lj buddies and constant updates.
[i guess i, too, am guilty - -but i try]

bye.

Fri, 14 Dec 2007 05:13:01 GMT

A couple random and short things:

I am finished!! ... with Friday's stuff. Monday's 3 finals are a COMPLETELY different story
I am proud i am working my butt off and getting shit done quickly.

Next wednesday i am seeing Sweeny todd with McKaig, gannon, ellie, loper, and blah blah cool people. i am REALLY excited. i haven't seen them in forever. and mckaig ALWAYS makes parties on days i can't come =|
i just wanna talk and talk and talk.
i am really proud to say she is one of my very best role models.
i know everyone has their faults at times, like being crazy, but i don't care.
i think she's the coolest.
ever.

during our "personal best" performances in oral interp, this guy wanted to use a music stand.
just your plain, old, regular basic music stand.
he couldn't figure out how to raise it.....
and a thought came to my mind.
isn't it WEIRD?
how some people can not know or come in contact with something that someone may know so personally?
You know what i mean?
i mean like, music stand was a HUGE part of my life, even tho it may not be now.
or like. other things that I don't know about - like im that kid.
i have NO idea how to use all the functions on a calculator.
stuff like that? ... yeah? ... get it? ... no?
okay i thought it was going to be obscure to explain but oh well.

I feel sometimes that people don't actually GET IT.
like yeah, everyone knows i take a lot of classes and work full time.
and more than half the time i manage to slack off but get great grades.
...but i don't think that people realize how hard it is for me still.
yeah, i still it get it done but i literally WORK MY ASS OFF.
i just don't get it, when people try to change plans to benefit THEIR schedule, or insist that i get them something, or complain about THEIR life (when they do practically nothing).
not to sound snotty.
and this is no one in particular, you see.
that's just it - it is almost everyone!
and i REALLY just wanna be like uhm okay.
lets have a contest. who has a harder life.
i win.
you may think you do, but you just don't fucking get it, do you?

fuck. whatever. i am sick of people.
everyone.

there is no way i can join forensics. not next semester.
=|
there goes all that joy i thought i was going to have.

i think im depressed so often because my life is so depressing.
GOD. i HATE people.

they make my life worse.

Mon, 26 Nov 2007 16:29:47 GMT

Mon, 19 Nov 2007 01:13:02 GMT

this is more for me than anyone else, so don't complain if you read.

i feel like i try really, really hard to overcome things.
but it will always work opposite for me.

i feel like i am sad sometimes.
most of the time.
it's not like i like it.
and its not even over that big of things.
kind of.

maybe i just don't get it, this whole life thing.

i just feel like maybe my life is changing.
has been changing.
and i am just doing a terrible job of transitioning.
maybe having fun all the time, having people i can call up anytime and hang, having people in my life who don't abuse my trust.
maybe those were strictly "when"s and not "now"s.
i don't mean for it to sound as bad as it may seem, but do you know what i mean?

i just feel like no one cares anymore.
i cry all the time now.
and i hate crying.
i just feel stupid and useless for it.
it solves nothing and is a complete waste of energy.
but i can't help it. i try so hard.

i have one, maybe two supporters.
who really try to help me through things.
and i don't know what i would do without them, really.
and gosh, they are wonderful.
but i hate being in a place when they're not there.
and then something triggers bad feelings.

i feel so goddamn helpless and i fucking hate it.
i hate being affected by something i can't have any control or impact on.
especially when it makes me feel so fucking bad.

i don't know.
no singular thing, i guess.
just a terrible culmination of realist ideas and experiences.

i hate finding people i get along with perfectly and who i care about
and then like that they are out of my life.
i mean there have only got to be so many people that you will click with right?
with each person gone, my pool continues to dwindle and die.
i am scared.

i am scared, worried, helpless, and insufferably sad.

the worst part is when people will fake be there for you.
i'd rather you saved your breath.
or when the people that i love tell me they hate to see me like this.
.....
i know its good intentions, but that just makes me feel worse.
like a disappointment.

in any rate, i don't think anything can solve any of this.
nothing.
it's just life i guess.
and thats why i am so extra sad - because i can't stop this.

up until about a month ago, i really was hoping to stay instate when i got my degree.
pretty much now i can care less.
thats the trouble, tho, caring less....
i hardly care about anything anymore.
i wish i didn't care about anything, everything included.

sometimes, a lot of times, i think about moving to somewhere where no one is.
forever.

make my own walden.

Fri, 09 Nov 2007 21:25:41 GMT

i've been thinking a lot lately.
about millions of things.
about how i half-ass all my classes (even ones i care about).
about how i always lose my friends. always.
about how expansive parking lots waste the most space for nothing.
about how i hope i am not crazy.
how i enter a store, don't buy the thing i need, but walk out with ten other things. always.
how friendships don't really mean anything in the end.
how relationships evolve and devolve.
how people see "signs" that determine their lives.
how people can believe in something like that.
how i try to overcompensate for everything. everything i've done wrong ever.
how mtv airs shows that more than once in two different shows girls attack other girls for being "fat" - when they must weigh maybe 120.
how i am scared for the future planet.
how i feel a sense of helpless ness.
how i feel a lack of any strong emotion.

how i am at an utter loss of words for everything.

Thu, 01 Nov 2007 01:51:57 GMT

Yeah, okay.
I am filled with insecurities.

how do you know if you're making mountains out of molehills?
or are you supposed to no matter what?
just so you're not always submissive.

blah.

sometimes things trouble me.
i try to not let them, but they win.

but thats kinda good right? at least i have the concious battle?
kinda like the you're not crazy if you think you're crazy deal, right?

in any case,
am i doing what i always do?
God, i hope not.